I am a guy that is gay in nyc in the belated twenties. My boyfriend has actually been emotionally relying on the pandemic having been a frontline worker. I do believe he could be struggling with some moderate despair or at the least some intense anxiety therefore I only want to preface this by saying I entirely sympathize in what he is going right through. Prior to the pandemic we had a sex that is really good, but recently he has gotn’t been enthusiastic about sex at all besides a couple of assisted masturbation sessions. I can’t help feeling rejected while I know that these aren’t usual times. Typically, i will suggest setting up the connection, with regard to both myself and him, and I also genuinely believe that he may reap the benefits of making love with a few dudes where there is not an investment that is emotional. Needless to say, appropriate now that is not an alternative. I wish to be here for him so we otherwise have actually a great relationship, but this problem happens to be making me feel harmed.