Yes, We have numerous methods for this! And IвЂ™m thrilled you want to publish polyamorous figures; those dynamics donвЂ™t appear in fiction much and will be a lot of enjoyment to relax and play with.
(Throughout this post IвЂ™m planning to make use of the abbreviation polyam for polyamorous, as p/Poly can be used by folks from Polynesian cultures.)
IвЂ™ve seen and been in a fantastic polyam that is many non-monogamous plans, some practical and some maybe maybe not. Those that last the longest and keep people the happiest have generally had the qualities that are following
- Plenty of truthful, sort interaction. Famously, the 3 guidelines of polyamory are 1) communicate, 2) communicate, and 3) communicate. But just dealing with the manner in which you feel or asking for just what you prefer is not enough; additionally you should be in a position to pay attention respectfully and talk about subjects thoughtfully, with understanding for where your lovers are arriving from. There needs to be area for every single person become their genuine self, modulated through kindness toward other people.
- Comparable priorities for usage of resources. This can be a fundamental point of compatibility in any relationship.